How Financial Professionals Can Get In The Way:
Many advisors unwittingly (or in some cases, not so unwittingly) tap into or add to people’s already existing fears. They don’t explain the difference between voluntary and involuntary philanthropy. When people regularly respond, “Well, no, we’ll need that money for us and the kids,” many financial professionals conclude that the conversation is over. Additionally, they feel this is a conversation that just isn’t worth having unless the client brings it up.
At the risk of introducing another profession to make an important analogy, we’d ask you to consider whether the best advisors should act as pharmacists or physicians? Should your advisor just dispense the prescriptions or solutions to the issues you bring to him or her? Are you expected to depend on the answers you receive, without question? Or do you want your advisor to be ready, willing, and able to have the kind of courageous conversations that a good physician should be free to initiate?
Haven’t the most helpful people in our own lives been the advisors, mentors, counselors, and friends who have asked us the best and sometimes most compelling questions? Do we routinely label someone “wise” who has that admirable trait of habitually asking that one extra question that others don’t ask? Don’t we respect most those who help us challenge our own assumptions and sometimes our stubbornness?
Aren’t advisors smarter and infinitely more helpful to their clients if they clearly discuss the scope of the proverbial “medications and treatments” (i.e. strategies, solutions, investments, etc.) that can truly improve the quality of their life and legacy – as a skilled and compassionate physician would?
In truth, many of the individuals and families we serve, who trust us and rely on us, just don’t really appreciate or know on their own what they can accomplish through their legacy and philanthropic planning. Wouldn’t the best advisors want their clients to know this? And if one of your advisors helped you realize this, wouldn’t you trust and rely on them that much more in the future?
―Excerpt from chapter 5
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Ron Ware, J.D. and Greg Hammond, CFP®, CPA are wealth impact strategists and personal legacy advisors who help individuals, families, and business owners enhance their financial standing while discovering a greater capacity to provide for their loved ones and support cherished charities. Contact Ron or Greg.Greg’s website: www.hammondiles.com Ron’s website: www.wealthimpactpartners.com